Saina told me about the basics of relationship yesterday. There were some really good things she told me.
- Pay Attention,. Paying attention to what 1 likes and dislikes and then reflecting it. Buying small gifts which reflect it, means a lot. He bought a pink flower for her, when she had told before that she liked pink.
- Being truthfull and not playing games.
- Communicate and be available. No matter what comes in his way, he is there for her. If he says he is going to call he does. If he receives a call. No matter what he is doing he would hang up. If he has programmes of going with friends he would cancel and be there. He drove hours and was tired but still played golf, just because she mentioned that she wanted to do it.
Say lovely things.
- Make her feel wanted. By taking advice and sharing things. Don't give them a feeling that you think they are dumb. And don't think they are dumb.
- Comfort her and make her at ease about things.
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Another thing I liked was her answer about my unsolved universe mystery. Her dream describing that she came across a never ending book and ran away with a pocket edition of it from a library was amazing. And it was so true, that we are all a part of god. The part of god inside us is very pure and is the source of all knowledge and has all the answers we need. And may be everything is connected from inside. And, Of course, the analogy comparing it with the flatland and sphere was very appropriate.
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The 1 unsolved mystery of mine i got solved was the mystry of missing something. I found out why i don't miss ppl. back at home. I found out that I missed someone or something, if i got a lot of something and that was suddenly cut-off. So you miss someone when say you get a lot of attention from someone and it is suddenly cut-off.
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